Dealing with Stress

So for a long time now I have been dealing with a lot of stress and normally I would say a small amount of stress is always good for you. It keeps you on your toes but like most things to much of anything is bad for you.

So why have I been over stressed? I decided to do some research into what can create stress but also how to combat it. During my search I came across a lot of helpful tips on how to combat stress, which also highlighted the main causes for stress.

The first part to solving anything is accepting their is something wrong. In my case what has been stressing me out the most is;

1. What I do for a living (work) isn't  meaningful enough to me and it's not what I want to do
2. Fear for leaving my current job and not getting another one
3. I create many 'To Do Lists' and never complete them properly or at all
4. Procrastination when I know I should be using the time for something more important
5. Erratic Sleeping patterns
6. Poor eaten pattern 
7. Over indulging on alcohol

Now that I have outlined what has been stressing me out, I just have to find a solution that will fix each one.

1. Create career plan, decide what you want to do based on what you like and what your good at.
2. Anything worth doing comes with risk but if its important enough make that change and embrace the fear. Do the research, make plans and fulfill them.
3. Never overlord yourself with to much in one go and make time to get tasks done. Its all about prioritizing whats important and whats not. So create prioritizing color indicator for each task with time and date and appropriate reminders.  
4. use sundays to schedule your week ahead and make time for relaxation and entertainment
5. Creating a strict sleeping routine and stick to it and everything else will follow 
6. Manage my meal times and make sure they health.
7. Stop drinking

These are things that I will have to incorporate into my weekly scheduling not that I haven't already. However I haven't structured to my work schedule and days off and that's where it all goes wrong. This is why I shall use Sunday as the day where I alternate my week ahead schedule, plan and prioritize my to list that week. 

It's all about taking control and finding the best way to relief stress. There are many ways of releasing stress so the best way is finding what works well for you and adapting it into your lifestyle. Others ways of dealing with stress are;

1. Physical exercise
2. Mediation or me time
3. Stress Diary - To help you keep track, reflect and make the appropriate changes to keep stress to a minimum
4. Learn to say 'NO',you come first.
5. Accepting the things you can't change
6. Volunteer work can be fulfilling and rewarding, helping those less fortunate then you are can help put things into perspective 
7. Avoid unhealthy habits and people/individuals that stress you out
8. Connect with people
9. Be positive
10. express yourself more rather then bottling it all up

An one of the most important things to remember is to remember what helps you. Keep it fresh in your mind with reminders. The last thing you want to do is to fall back into the same bad habits and behaviors that resulted in your high stress levels to begin off with.

Below are some links i got a lot of helpful advise from;

How to Mediate
10 Tips dealing with Stress
Dealing with Stress
Steps to do with Stress
Stress management
NHS - Ten Stress Busters
BBC -  The Consequences of too much stress
BBC - Learning How To Relax

Stay Brilliant, Stay Beautiful, Terry Masters.